Mom, I Hate My Life!

Becoming Your Daughter’s Ally

Through the Emotional Ups and Downs of Adolescence

By Sharon Hersh

 

Statistics Related to Teenage Girls

 

Emotions

·         The female brain responds more intensely to emotion.  Feelings, especially sadness, trigger neurons in an area eight times larger in the female brain than in the male.[1]

·         The neurons in the FEMALE adolescent brain that trigger emotions (especially sadness) are up to eight times larger than they were in childhood.[2]

 

Harassment

·         Girls aren’t any nicer to one another.  Researchers suggest that an incident of bullying takes places once every seven minutes in school today,[4] and that by the eighth grade 81% of girls have experienced sexual harassment.[5]

 

Anxiety

 

Depression

 

Eating Disorders

 

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Teenage Statistics/page two

 

Cutting

 

Suicide

·         “Suicide in the young, which has at least tripled over the past forty-five years, is without argument, one of our most serious public health problems.  Suicide is the third leading cause of death in young people in the United States and the second for college students.”[17]

 



[1] Anne Moir and David Jessel, Brain Sex: The Real Difference between Men and Women, NY: Bantam Doubleday Dell, 1991, pp. 33-37.

[2] Sandra Susan Friedman, When Girls Feel Fat, Buffalo, NY: Firefly Books, 2000, p. 27.

[3] Kimberly Dawn Neumann, “The Jump on Body & Soul,” Jump, April 2000, p. 34.

[4] Gesele Lajoie, Alyson McLelland and Cindi Seddon, Take Action Against Bullying, Coquitlam, BD: Bully Beware Productions, 1997.

[5] Nan Stein, Nancy L. Marshall and Linda R. Tropp, Secrets in Public: Sexual Harassment in Our Schools, American Association of University Women Foundation, 1993, p. 7.

[6] Geoffrey Cowley, Newsweek, “Our Bodies, Our Fears,” February 24, 2003, p. 44.

[7] Ibid., p. 48.

[8] Miriam Kaufman, BScN, MD, FRCP, Overcoming Teen Depression: A Guide for Parents, NY: Firefly Books, 2001, p. 6.

[9] Miriam Kaufman, BScN, MD, FRCP, Overcoming Teen Depression: A Guide for Parents, NY: Firefly Books, 2001, p. 2.

[10] Gregory Jantz, Ph.D., Moving Beyond Depression, Colorado Springs: Shaw Books, 2003, p. 1.

[11] Mary Pipher Hunger Pains, Holbrook, Mass: Adams Publishing, 1995, p. 53.

[12] Lori Gottlieb, “I Had an Eating Disorder and Didn’t Even Know It!” CosmoGirl, April 2001, 149.

[13] Karen Contour and Wendy Alder, Ph.D., Bodily Harm, NY: Heparin, 1998, pp. 21-22.

[14] Wade, p. 60.

[15] Wade, p. 60.

[16] Wade, p. 60.

[17] Kay Redfield Jamison, Night Falls, NY: Vintage Books, 1999, p. 21.

[18] P.M. Lewinsohn, P. Rohde, and J.P. Seeley, “Adolescent Suicidal Ideation and Attempts: Prevalance, Risk Factors, and Clinical Implications,” Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice, 3 (1996), pp. 25-46.